Be Magnetic

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Don’t chase people or things. Attract Good things into your life. Be an example of what the world needs, of what you need in your life and attract only that! Work hard and be your true self. When we are true to ourselves, the people and things that belong in our lives will come and find us and they will stay with us for the entire time that they are supposed to. Does that mean forever? Maybe not. Does it mean they are gone forever when they do go? Maybe not. Trust that those you need will come to you and that those you don’t will go. Don’t hold on to things that do not serve you. If it does not serve your goals, you simply don’t need it. Attract ONLY what You need in your life! Repel the rest!

How? Well, it all starts with this… Ask yourself in every decision, every relationship, every moment, every place…repeatedly…

Does this person/place/thing serve my goals?

If it’s toxic, the answer is no! Whether it be toxic food, toxic people, or toxic places. The answer is always no.

When we stay in toxic places, with toxic people, eating or doing toxic things our lives quickly become rancid. We have to do the work to clean it up. The cleaner we keep our lives, the cleaner they stay. No one sets out to have a rotten life, toxic things build up to that.  When our lives are rancid, we attract rancid things and rancid people. Some people who are like, buzzards, flies, even maggots. Eww! Is that what we want? Umm… NO!

Like a bad smell in the fridge, start taking everything out and Clean out your life. DETOX YOUR LIFE! Take a week off of everything toxic, and use this time as a Cleansing reset! Cleanse your mind, body, and soul!  Every bad thing that you remove will clear room in your life for the better! Replace bad with good, over and over.

Figure out what it is that YOU really want. Is it a healthier lifestyle, a more abundant life, do you want to travel the world, get a new car, buy a new house, have a family, change careers? What is it? What is in your heart? What is your soul crying out to do? Write it all down, Dream Big, Not just one dream, but ALL of them!

Set yourself up for success, don’t allow an out.

We have clear the noise, the toxins, the smelly stuff to find out who our true selves really are- without influence by outside things. After you write down all the things you WANT to do, write down on another sheet of paper all the things that are stopping you. List them out one by one. Awareness is the key to success in ALL things. 

When we are true to our true selves,
seeking our true purposes,
our true purposes begins to seek us!

When we focus on the things in life that we want, they start to appear… everywhere! Like cleaning our house to find our keys, We have to clean out our lives for them to find us!

We are always shifting, evolving, growing, learning, moving forward. We become what we need to be at the times in our lives that we need it, but only when we allow it to happen! When we clear the space. Even a tree in the forest needs room to grow.

Have you ever noticed we seem to attract a certain type of people or things into our lives, as soon as we look for them?

Let me give some examples…

I decided one day that I wanted a Jeep to carry my Bloodhound around in, to bring joy to all who pass with his ears and lips flopping in the wind. Now, I can’t say that I saw too many Jeeps around before I decided this grand idea. But NOW THEY ARE EVERYWHERE! Suddenly the whole world decided to buy a Jeep at the exact time I decided how cute my hound dog would look in one! Coincidence? I think not.

Another example…  My daughter was stung in the eye by a bee at summer camp when she was around 14. Now every time a bee is near she fears it will sting her in the eye — and she has been stung several times in the eye since! Not only that but, she has put so much fear into bees that they literally chase her around, even when they are not bothering anyone else.

I will give a third example… How about when we stub a toe or a finger, suddenly we hit it on everything. Surely we don’t hit our toe or finger this much on a daily basis without noticing! But, boy, when we hurt something, we hit it on everything known to man!

Everything we are, everything we do,
everything we think, say or feel..
It’s all magnetic.

We are ALWAYS magnetic! Good or bad, What are we attracting into our lives?

What if we set the intention to attract GREAT THINGS INTO OUR LIVES?
WARNING: Great things are about to happen for you!

What if we set the intention each day and repeated one of these positive affirmations, all day, every day for a solid week- or more. I will list a few so you can pick one according to your goals, or you can make your own from the examples…

Fitness Goals:
I am healthy, happy, and love to exercise.
Exercise is a gift to my life and I am worth the happiness and love that it brings.

Results: Suddenly you will find ways to exercise more in your day, bicep curls in the car, lunges to the bathroom, triceps dips on the counter while your coffee brews. You will begin to notice muscles in the mirror you never saw before. You will start to enjoy exercise, crave it, enjoy it more during. Knowing you are giving yourself a gift puts a whole new appreciation to it.

Money Goals:
I am wise with my money, I am becoming debt free. I have all that I need. I am worth more than gold and, I have an amazingly abundant life.

Results: Suddenly you don’t need to buy that expensive coffee, or those extra things at the store that you don’t really need. You start putting more into savings and save enough to invest in something that is profitable for you. Maybe even start your dream business. Your bills getting paid down is more important than having that latest greatest gadget that will be outdated in 2 months. You become content in all things.

Diet Goals:
I eat according to my goals.
Eating healthy is a gift to my body and my mind.
I crave healthy food. What I eat matters.
I am strong, healthy and vibrant because I choose the right foods.

Result: Suddenly you start making better choices. Your body craves protein to be strong, it craves greens to be balanced, it craves the feeling you get after a healthy meal and rejects the bad foods knowing how it will make you feel afterwards. You start to ask yourself before you choose what to eat… “Does this serve my goals?”

Business Goals:
I am abundant, I am successful, I am strong. I am focused, I am confident.
What I am doing is important and is needed in this world.

Result: Suddenly you feel confident in what you are doing, you have no room for doubt. You know what you’re doing is needed in the world. It is no longer a chore, but a joy! Your business starts to pick up, Things start to move with ease, you find the balance and your business and life start to flow.

Personal Goals:
I am happy, I am loved, I am abundant, I am enough.
What I say and do matters, and my light is needed in this world.

Result: Suddenly you stand a little taller, shine a little brighter, you feel more confident, People notice your smile and are magnetized to you. People start coming to you asking what is up, they notice your joy, your light attracts them. Your light attracts light, and the darkness flees from you.

You can make up your own positive affirmations for all the things you are trying attract into your life. Such as, learning a new skill, attracting the right partner, finding a better job, starting a new career, playing a sport, taking a test, attracting the right people in your life. Whatever your goals and dreams are, make a positive affirmation to go with them, write them down and post them all over your life.

Start choosing what you attract in your life.

If you have fear around something that you’re doing, or doubt, sure as the world, things will start to mess up. Things will start to fall apart, not because it’s not meant to be, but because your fear and doubt are attracting them. You’re magnetizing negativity to the situation! STOP IT!

Be strong. Be confident. Be true to yourself, and true to your goals.
Trust the process, Trust you are on track, don’t self-sabotage your progress
with doubt and bring discouragement into you life!
You and your goals DESERVE BETTER!

Don’t let resistance stop you. Resistance makes us stronger. But, be careful, resistance is brought on by our magnets of doubt. Turn that magnet around and make resistance repel from you! Attract positive to your life, and to your goals. Use your internal magnet to repel all things negative away from you. You are more powerful than you know!

Attract only what you want to bring into your life.
Repel the rest! <3

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