Who is your hero? What if the answer was you? Who or what would you need to become to be your own hero?
Think about all the heroes in your life and how they stand out as something special to you. What is it about them that makes them special to you? Is it their zest for life, their love for others, their relationship with God, their strengths? Write the qualities of each person down and start trying to adapt them yourself.
You are a hero to others I am sure of that. Maybe to your kids, your neighbors, your own parents. You are a hero. Now go be a hero for yourself!