Whatever angers you owns you. We choose how we feel about things, and at first, this is a foreign concept to most people. But we do. We choose what stories we attach to things, situations, people, moments, and experiences in life. We choose the memory, feeling, and effect they hold for us. We choose to keep old feelings or create … Read More
We simply can’t keep caring about people who don’t care about themselves or us, we can’t push people who won’t push themselves, we can’t drag people who won’t move! It is exhausting. We can’t keep allowing others to drain our cup simply because they CHOOSE not to refill theirs. We can’t drag people to happiness. We can only offer them … Read More
As a nation we need to heal the heart of addiction, the root cause, the reason someone is numbing out, before we can ever heal addiction. Addiction is self-punishment, it is self-sabatoge, it creates self-abuse. Yes, it’s harmful, painful, considered shameful by self and by others but, don’t despair, there is great news, it is 100% healable! But, we have … Read More
Choose people who choose you! YOU ARE PRICELESS So precious that your immeasurable value can not be determined by anyone. You are a treasure beyond compare, irreplaceable, and unparalleled by any other, and are to be cherished. You are a rare jewel just waiting to be discovered! Doesn’t that feel amazing? Our body image is a choice. Did I … Read More
It is simple: We are either part of the solution or part of the problem. The things going on in today’s world, I feel, have the potential to go really wrong or really right if handled properly. I do see a lot of men and women handling things right, in love, in forgiveness, in grace, but I also see a lot … Read More
Should happiness be a struggle for us? No, it shouldn’t be. Is happiness is a choice? Yes! Every feeling we have begins in our heads and becomes a choice when we allow it to. It moves to our hearts, then our bodies react accordingly. It then controls our choices, our actions, our reactions. Happiness is the one thing that we … Read More
Do you go around feeling others are judging you? Do you live in reaction of what you think they will think? People aren’t judging you according to you what they think about you. They are judging themselves and reflecting it onto others. It’s not in your control. It is in theirs, People Judge others … Read More
What would you give to be able to have a magic wand that you could wave around and make everyone happy? Guess what? You don’t even need a wand. Your happiness makes others happy! That, my dear, is even better than magic! Happiness is contageous! People tend to put their own happiness last to make others happy…. but the truth … Read More